Family Consultants and the Family Court deliberately ignore the requests of children about their lives and where they want to live. Vicitms of Family Domestic Violence are re abused by the system, and children are being given to perpetrators of Family Domestic Violence on a fulltime basis. Please read about my victim input with children and the family court of australia in other blogs. I found this article on the internet. It is now 2015 and still not occurring. When will our children have a voice?
One Family domestic violence victim recently lost her children to a perpetrator of 12 years of violence, even though he had previously assaulted the children. Just only two weeks ago he assualted his son with special needs. Is there any justice in Family Court of Australia for Children and their Human rights?
Justice for Children Australia
Submission to Consolidation of Anti-Discrimination Laws 2012
Any child who witnesses verbal or physical assaults on other family members grow up with a distorted view of the world. They are more likely to become victims or perpetrators of domestic family violence in their lifetime. We are responsible as a community and a nation for these lost children trying to find their place in the world.
Kelly Richards paper on “Children’s exposure to Domestic Violence in Australia” states
Children’s ‘witnessing’ or exposure to domestic violence has been increasingly recognised as a form of child abuse, both in Australia and internationally. Although it is difficult to accurately assess the scope of the problem, research has demonstrated that a substantial amount of domestic violence is witnessed by children. As this paper outlines, witnessing domestic violence can involve a range of incidents, ranging from the child ‘only’ hearing the violence, to the child being forced to participate in the violence or…
When victims of abuse, sexual violence, rape go to the authorities they are quite often abused for doing so.
This time the abuse starts all over again, the new abuser the failed justice system that is mean to be there to support you…but sadly far too many are let down.
A complete overhaul of our justice system is needed, more support for all abuse victims.
The Government of Australia would rather aid in helping Corporate Business men, committ fraud, money laundering, tax evasion, crimes that cost our Government ten of billions of dollars every single year, that spend that money on combating abuse.
Our Government has sent out a very strong message that Abuse victims, survivors simply do not matter, children, women, men of abuse simply do not matter to our Nation, they are just disposable, like the trash you take out.
If they cared they would get off their ass, and make major reforms and change now, not ten years from now, twenty years from now…but today.
As a survivor of abuse, sexual violence, domestic violence, i went through hell and back again. My children the same. My own children victims of abuse and sexual violence by their own father. (That is another story which i wont get into here, he sexually abused his own children and to this day no justice has been served still.)
We were all abused by a failed justice system, the police who did nothing when VRO’s were broken 57 times. When i was violently beaten up, pregnant and my unborn child was killed. Nothing when our home was continuously broken into, to scare my children and I.
My then husband a man in Australia with money, power and a lot of connections.
The greater the power the greater the abuse….i have seen this been through this first hand.
When i did take the breaking on the VRO’s back to court, i had to do so with any aid of the police, i had to do so off my own back. You go to court to have the matter heard. A magistrate hears the evidence, in my case….the magistrate was disgusted my then husband was not in prison for what he was doing not only to me but to our children.
I was given full custody by a court to our children, there was a detailed record of his abuse to me and his own children, spanning over a decade.
The magistrate would set the mater down to be heard. My then husband would always wake sure for the second hearing he had his person hear this, a magistrate who was in his pocket, was know for taken bribes, and yes this was reported to the Federal Police for them to taken action. The matter was always dismissed, my then husband would sit in court and make death threats with his finger across his neck at me. This was done in full view of the residing magistrate and absolutely nothing was done to stop him doing this.
My then husband would admitted to breaking VRO’s and even to assault and killing our baby i was carrying, in fact he laughed about it in court. Then the magistrate in my then husbands pocket would turn and ask my husband at the time, “What would he like to do…how would he like to proceed with the matter?” This is a Magistrate sworn to up hold the law in court asking a man, an abuser, a murderer who has just admitted to all of this, what would he like to do. My then husband said “dismiss the matter threw it all of out of court.” So that is exactly what the corrupt Magistrate did, but he wouldn’t look at me or my lawyer, he said his words, face down then scurried out of the court room via their back door they enter and exit in.
I should point out here my then husband went to court unrepresented. He had the money to afford the best. But he went alone, so he could do what ever was necessary to intimidate me and our children.
We were cyber stalked, continuously, we were followed, hell he even hired an off duty Police Sergent who had been suspended and was under investigation….to follow us and even try and kidnap our children, this was a failed attempt. My then husband even tried to illegally obtain passports for our children. My children were then put on a watch list by the Australian Federal Police.
My former husband a complete Psychopath.
In the end my children and i had to flee leave our home, our possessions, everything, we had just a few cases, leave that state, go into hiding, change our names, so we could be alive to this day.
This, my story is the story of so many abuse, domestic violence victims, around the world….There is no justice, no help, you just have to run in the end to save you and your children’s lives. The abuser gets away with the abuse, to continue to abuse someone else.
I had studied Law at that time, so i knew the law very well, but that still didn’t matter, because the justice system is so broken. Now i study Psychology, i have been an advocate of stopping abuse of all forms fro over ten years, fighting to have changes made. Abuse in Australia is now an epidemic….it is the same all around the world.
Our Governments simply do not care enough to make change, its that simple.
In 2012, approximately 5000 women in Victoria used the services of the Salvation Army Domestic Violence Outreach Services. Of those 5000 women it is estimated that most of the services were for women and children escaping violence. After two years, 350 of those service users were randomly selected to see where they are now.
All of the group were immediately homeless upon leaving the family home environment. Some left without their children, and in 29 per cent of the cases do not have access to their children anymore. The perpetrator of the Family Violence, or government agencies have become the caregivers. In total that is 152 children without their mother in their lives. What generation of children will we have in the future?
A further 68 percent of the group now share “Parental responsibly” with their perpetrator, and “Shared Care”. Which means they get to face their perpetrator on a…
The Australian Government and Governments all around the world, are far too complacent when it comes to Abuse, domestic violence, domestic violence. Abuse is now a world wide epidemic, killing women and children….destroying lives.
Say No to Abuse, Domestic Violence, sexual violence, do not turn the other way.
Attorney-General Senator The Hon George Brandis QC
Minister Assisting The Prime Minister For Women Senator The Hon Michaelia Cash
Today we announce that work has commenced on a National Family Violence Bench Book which is another Abbott Government initiative to eliminate the scourge of domestic violence.
The current prevalence of family violence in Australia is utterly unacceptable. The Abbott Government has made it a priority to protect the safety of women and children.
It is fundamental that women and their families are safe from violence in their homes and communities and we remain absolutely committed to ensuring we reduce and ultimately end domestic violence.
The Bench Book will be a comprehensive online tool for judges across Australia, covering civil and criminal laws in federal, state and territory jurisdictions. It will promote best practice and consistency in judicial decision making…
Meyer rewrote the first book from Edward’s point of view, and called it
Midnight Sun. James rewrote Fifty Shades from Christian’s point of view
and called it Grey..alysbcohen.wordpress.com
The failings of the new tripe of Erica James and her dribble “GREY” And i do mean fail. Lets face it people, we new it was a fail from the start, the women can not write, she is obsessed with Christian Grey, his sexual violence, he is her rape fantasy, all rolled up in her billionaire Psychopath Christian. And the world hate this book so do the media giving it a hammering. Grey full story, review here.
It also seems very coincidental also that our site also sent Erica James a link to our website Shades of Grey by Edward Grey….the untold story, for our new book tackling abuse.
We did this a long time before E L James made any statement she was writing another piece of dribble, crap, abuse she was going to pass off as romance giving her Sexual abusing Psychopath Christian Grey permission to sexual and Psychologically abuse women, young women i should add.
Lets see Erica, i know i would have missed a few Authors out here, forgive me, but the list is just so long…….
Erica James, copied-stole from the Movie
“Secretary” Mr Grey, the original Mr Grey– James Spader-2002 movie
about a sadomasochistic very rich lawyer (psychological thriller-erotic
romance, with sadomasochism DBSM). being your biggest that you stole
from, people if you haven’t seen the movie, then I suggest you get it
out, you will see what I am talking about.
Delta of Venus-Anais Nin,
&a half weeks, Mr King died a few years ago sadly at the age of 72 years old, one of the most famous directors and producers of erotic, sensual romance, he won many awards for his work.
Jackie Collins are just a few.
New update we have been send a message that EL James has copied (or should it be stated as
“borrowed”) A LOT from The Black Dagger Brotherhood series by J.R. Ward.
J.R. Ward is a lawyer, hummm, copy write infringement?
A study was done and yes there is an article on the web about this people; 85% of people
would rather watch the movie “Secretary” than read or watch Fifty Shades
of Grey. Now you give it a fourth try at trying to write a book and you still copy it from others stealing from Twilight-Stephanie Myers all over again…..have you no shame women….obviously not, you must have Dakota Johnson’s affliction.
I have to give it to you Erica you did try “somewhat”…na lets face it
you didn’t try at all, what 4 times now, and you still didn’t get it
right. Still reads like a five year old wrote them, still full of abuse,
sexual violence, domestic violence putting lives in danger, with no
literary content at all, full of spelling and grammar mistakes like your
other crap books of abuse. Yes i know Erica book one had over 500 mistakes.
Then readers, Erica James has the audacity to come out and say every author in the world is copying her. I will give you a diagnosis now Erica its called psychotic delusion of grandeur, also narcissism.
The only people…and i stress “the only people” who keep going back for more of this sexual violence dribble, and support Erica James in her quest for sexual gratification with sexual violence, have a very serious
mental disorder. They have delusional fantasies, just like Erica James. Turned on by sexual
abuse, sexual violence, and yes there is such a disorder, and starts
quite young. These types of people dangerous to our society. Whats that Erica James….the youtube videos are correct, that
is you Erica James saying your abuse books are based on your life. “Hang on a minute while i pick myself off the ground with laughter.”
Yes you heard it “I did write myself into the Fifty Shades of Grey books as one of the characters”
Yes thats right, “i am going to be in the next movie”
Fifty Shadesof Grey, Grey, books; movie are the rape and delusional fantasies of Erica
James. Erica wrote her fantasies down in those four books. And by the sounds
of book 4, Grey, her husband Noel also joined her. ( Now i have this permanent
image edged into my mind of Noel and Erica and their sex room. Noel in faded blue
jeans, no shirt, with his beer belly hanging out over the top, Erica bent over
the table, with Noel, whip in hand ready to give it to her……jeeze the
wrote herself into her own books as one of the characters, and wait for it
people, she is going to be in the next movie. (what the fuck as, child molesting
Mrs Robinson Elena)
Erica James people is in video interviews which are on youtube for whoever wants to watch
as saying. “Fifty Shades of Grey is based on her life experiences, her life in
other words.” (fucking crap Erica, what utter fucking crap.) You have just spat
in the face of every abuse victim including children, you ice cold delusional narcissist.
In the same videos Erica James can be heard saying “She wrote herself into the books as one
of the characters…..She is going to be in the next movie.”
“Yes it got very hot and heavy, very steamy watching sex scenes with Jamie Dornan.”
Again, we have this Narcissist women, who is turned on by sexual abuse, turned on by
watching Jamie Dornan, sexual abuse, psychologically abuse Dakota Johnson, and
whip the shit out of a body double in the red room of pain. And by the look on
Jamie Dornan’s face and his body language he was enjoying it a little too much.
A man, Dana Brunetti, a so called film producer for Universal studios, says, “When he saw this story, Books; he couldn’t wait to make this incredible love story and bring to the screen.” What the fuck………on what fucking planet is this a romantic love story????? You quite obviously suffer from the same delusions as Erica James, and your
fantasies are also watching women being sexual abused, degraded.
The same Dana Brunetti we engaged into conversation with on social media. (yes people we screen shot the conversations) Who said“The Oscars are over rated.”
Fifty Shades of Grey franchise said on social media with Dana Brunetti also in the mix of
the conversation, that “Fifty Shades of Grey was going to win an Oscar”(we couldn’t stop laughing like the other people watching the conversation unfold)
We said “Fifty Shades of Grey was shocking sexual abuse, so dangerous to everyone”. “The only award it was going to win was a Razzy, for the worst film to be made ever, the worst acting by two leading parts from the actors.”
This is our book co-written with Edward Grey and Alexandria
to raise money for abuse charities. You need to go to the website to read what the book is about, there are pages there to read also.
This book is no way Fifty Shades of Grey, not copied, no names the same, nothing. The website explains more.
We sent our books link, website to E L James way before she even announced she was writing another trash piece of abuse. She has now been attacking us for doing so, slandering our book. Our book has already gone global, and the proceeds are going to charity, to raise as much money as we can for abuse charities, which E l James is dead against us doing.
Now it would seem Erica James is laying claims to owning the rights to the Oxford English Dictionary, and all the words that it also contains.
Well she gave an indication of this, with her latest rant, of dribble and slander against our book Shades of Grey
♦Meaning of “shades of grey” -Cambridge English Dictionary shades of
grey› the fact of it not being clear in a situation what is right and
wrong: a straightforward choice between good and evil, with no shades of
♦Now we could be wrong here, but last we checked, Erica James did not the the rights to the Oxford English Dictionary, thank god she didn’t write it. Fuck could you imagine the mayhem if she did.♦
Watch out parents who named their babies, or adults living or dead,—— Edward, Christian, Anastasia, Teddy, any one with surname Grey, Erica is claiming you stole the name from her.
Edward Grey is the name
of: Edward Grey, 1st Viscount Grey of Fallodon (1862–1933), British
Liberal statesman & foreign minister Edward Grey, 1st
Viscount Lisle (died 1492), English nobleman who was created Viscount
Lisle in 1483 Edward Grey (policeman), (1918-2004), Sri Lankan
sportsman and police officer Edward Grey (bishop) (1782–1837),
Anglican clergyman Edward Grey (died 1676) (1611–1676), English
Sir Edward Grey, a fictional character in the Hellboy
♦fictional character in the movie “Secretary”Edward E Grey♦ The name “Christian” comes from the Greek “kristos”, meaning “anointed
one”, and is older than Jesus Christ. It’s not a Hebrew name. It
can also be a girls name and used widely around the world for centuries. Christian means “a follower of Christ.” The first historical
usage of this name dates back to the 1st century, in the book of Acts in
the Bible. Again is E L James claiming she own the rights to the name
Christian?? Did she write the bible??? God… is Christian Grey the second
coming , is he the messiah??? Fuck i hope not for every ones sake and
Now hang on Erica have you been fooling the world, are you older than the bible….you tricky dicky Erica, you fooled us all.
National Center on Sexual Exploitation Slams ‘Fifty Shades’ Spinoff
‘Grey’: “An Irresponsible Rationalization of Domestic Abuse” story here
Erica James has already come our slandering our book with vexatious slanderous comments at the Hollywood Reporter This same article done by the Hollywood reporter also exposes Erica James who wrote the trash abuse dribble Fifty Shades of Grey books that are now lining the bottom of kitty litter trays around the world.
Erica James has once again been caught copying Stephenie Meyers-twilights book.
Come on lets face it who hasn’t Erica James copied, and ripped off.
Alys has written over night a new article on the failings of the new tripe of Erica James and her dribble “GREY” And i do mean fail. Lets face it people, we new it was a fail from the start, the women can not write, she is obsessed with Christian Grey, his sexual violence, he is her rape fantasy, all rolled up in her billionaire Psychopath Christian. And the world hate this book so do the media giving it a hammering. Grey full story, review here.
As promised, I will be recapping this tripe. But first, I want to comment on the name. When searching online, there’s nothing at all to set it apart the other books. Nothing. No subtitle. Nothing at all that isn’t in the first book’s title. The official title is just Grey. The “Retold by Christian Grey” isn’t an official part of the title. This is a titling fail.
Also, for supposedly having grey eyes, the eye on the cover is awfully blue-green.
Now I shall dive in.
We start with some rather bland acknowledgements, which would usually go in the back. A few stand out.
The FP ladies for help with my Americanisms.
Numerous counts number her Britishisms in the first books in the hundreds. She’s banned people on Twitter for pointing them out.
Professor Dawn Carusi for help in navigating the U.S. higher…
James openly admitted that her series is Twilight fanfiction. She copied Twilight, replacing vampirism with a bad, horrifically wrong type of abuse that she calls BDSM. This is the first of several times she has tried copying Meyer.
Meyer rewrote the first book from Edward’s point of view, and called it Midnight Sun. Meyer rewrote Fifty Shades from Christian’s point of view and called it Grey.
And now? Now! Oh, folks, now. Midnight Sun was leaked, so legitimately leaked that Meyer decided to not even finish it. What are the chances that Grey, James’s Midnight Sun, would now be leaked…
Also confirmed the mindless women who who drank up this dribble like it was their last drop of water on a secluded island are the same women who see Beyonce and Madonna turning the simplest pop song with no words into a leather-clad psychosexual performance,………. deprived of sexual pleasures in their life they had nothing left to cling onto as the ship began to sink.
(hang on, no wait that’s Gilligan’s Island, or was it The Poseidon adventure, sorry wrong mindless dribble Movie, although at least there was a little more drama and better story line than Fifty Shades of abuse.)
Sorry where was i ???………. Yes mindless dribble.
“So again it was those women who bought all the movie tickets to prop up this crap. The ones who want a lot of Christian grey in them.”……. “The women that got that tingling feeling in their nether-region from watching a young innocent vulnerable women get abused, controlled, degraded, sexually abused, stalked, lied to, who found this abuse a turn on, just like E L James did”.
The same women who bought the bullshit of the BDSM contract as being so sexy and erotic, when it is in fact a Master and Slave contract, a Sex Slave contract. (but how can this be so wrong E L James researched it, just like all the other bullshit in her books she said she researched, and women and young girls are taking this for gospel that its correct because E L James has pushed down the public’s throat as being so.) Don’t forget though the books are based on her life experiences, she said so in a live interview 2015. So this is the sexual life experiences of E L James….”please i am going to gag”.
E L James wanted the jellyfish sexual position in the movie, yet not once does she mention the jellyfish sexual position in her books.
Come on Erica, you have been playing with the Kamasutra book now haven’t you. Trying to learn about sex, orgasms and pleasure. Well you could have done your homework before you wrote your dam books.
I don’t think you really have a clue about sex, pleasure, eroticism, orgasms, your books clearly shows that. And you certainly know nothing about BDSM or contracts.
Knelt down in a comfortable surface (but not very soft as the bed), the man submits to the will of the woman in this position: she will descend towards his sex and will make penetrate slowly when she wishes it. Before they will be able to kiss, to rub her chests, to embrace each other, to caress the back of other one and to support softly the glans penis in the vagina and to rub it with the clitoris: hereby, the penetration will come with an infinite pleasure. During the coitus, if he cannot submit stoically to the movements of her, he can mark the pace taking it as the waist and attracting her body towards him. The clash of the faces offers the exciting opportunity to speak itself and to kiss itself in the mouth until the wished orgasm comes.
I think Erica just wanted to see Jamie Dornan naked like this, in the jellyfish sexual position, or maybe it was Dakota Johnson she wanted to see naked like this?? She said in her live interview things got very hot and steamy on the set of the movie. “Come on Erica seeing two inches of Jamie Durnan’s groin and pubic hair and maybe a bulge in his pants from time to time is enough to get you hot and steamy, then you are clearly deprived of sex…or it takes very little to turn you on.”
In the books E L James has it almost every time Anastasia has an orgasm she passes out. Come on Erica you have been on those sexual torture websites again haven’t you. Or would you have us believe Christian Grey is that much of a sexual God he can make Anna a sexual virgin pass out from her orgasms. (laughing sarcastically here)
You have been watching the wrong type of porn Erica.
Now the Fifty Shades of Grey Franchise has well an truly caught those sexually frustrated women into their net with all of this crap as well as their marketing getting them to buy their over priced sex toys that Have Fifty Shades of Grey written on them…..which will never get seen when its doing its job of pleasure…..or maybe those women need a how to manual, they just bought the toys to look at, to fantasize about as well??…..who knows. One thing i do know is i will not be buying into their marketing crap.
E L James did not invent sex toys, they have been around for thousands of years. But as one person who commented on our website said she is strutting around as if she invented sex toys and sex….”fucking please, Erica wouldn’t know erotic sex or a real orgasm if it bit her on the ass.” 50-shades-of-abuse.blogspot.com.au is our website.
Now the marketing team has a new target the young innocent girls 15 years old pushing t-shirts with sexual slogans…..yes they have their people on social media pushing the shit out of these t-shirts, pre-ordering the blueray movie Fifty Shades of Grey…..and if you live in Australia and order now you can have your name put on the video…..how special are they. “Please, i am going to vomit.”
T-shirts with this slogan….. My ideal weight is Christian Grey on top of me
The Fifty Shades of Grey people are on twitter and social media sharing clips….the sex scenes not edited from the R rated movie with minors encouraging them to share with other kids. I counted twenty videos, R rated full sex scenes sharing them with kids, as well as nude pictures of Jamie Durnan and Dakota Johnson with sexual slogans written across the pictures of them. Someone who access to the Universal studio movie has been making these movies. A report has been made to the FBI, movies and accounts copied. This people is a Federal crime.
Yes women do want erotic, sexual movies other than porn, no one is making this for women. But we want romance like the old movies also, we don’t want bloody abuse like that in Fifty Shades of Grey.
There are so many books that could be made into erotic movies, i have my own books coming out this year, erotic fiction, romance and my fans that have been reading the book chapters from my websites are already asking for the movie, because there is nothing like my books story line in the market, and hasn’t been ever.
Fans are already falling in love with my book characters, men and women. My books are very erotic, powerful, dangerous, but also have a real story line. immortal–goddess this is one of my websites you can check out my books there as well as the art work and covers. (unlike E L James i do know all about sex, erotic sex and orgasms. You can find out about my book series and me in the about us section of my website.)
Take the bad sex out of Fifty Shades of Grey books and there is no story except abuse and more abuse.
“Fifty Shades of Grey is Porn for women and couples” but not E L James’s adaptation. All E L James version leaves you with is a ripped off feeling…. oh yes i want my god dam money back please for my ticket i had to per-purchased to see your dribble of a movie.
The Fifty Shades of Grey XXX and Ryan Driller will leave you ladies feeling all tingly inside and you wont need that second glass of wine. No sinking ships in this movie plenty of masks flying high though. 😛 😉
The Fifty Shades of Grey XXX version. No abuse what so ever in the xxx movie i have seen it. Very entertaining and very XXX. For those ladies who want a little Christian Grey in them they would get more turned on with this version and Ryan Driller who plays Christian Grey in the XXX movie than E L James’s boring dribble.
Ryan has a killer body and gives you the full display of his skills in the bedroom and the playroom in this version. Sorry no nudity in these videos you will have to go and download it from the internet to see any full nudity and sex. 🙂
In 2012 Shades Limited who own the rights to Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy sued Smash pictures who made the XXX version. I have posted the article below. I thought E L James had quite the nerve since 75% of her books are stolen from other peoples work, namely the biggest one, the movie Secretary with James Spader. His name Edward Grey into sadomasochism and BDSM a very rich lawyer and his secretary a mousy women just like Anastasia, get the movie and watch it and you will be sitting with your mouth open to how much Fifty Shades is ripped from the movie Secretary…..and James has the nerve to sue a Porn Production company…please that is laughable. (click on the article to bring to full view, it will make you laugh when you see what they are claiming in the law suite.